the calm after the storm

i think the storm is over. i suggested to my man (partly in an effort to get him into the new house) that me and him stay there over the weekend as my friend who i live with was having a bbq for her mans birthday at her house on sat and he was staying with her sat night. my man then finally started getting stuff for the house bed etc and we stayed there sat night and last night. i have to say, i actually quite like being there with him. sat night was kinda weird cos i was working late and he was out late so we were both tired when we got in and pretty much went straight to bed. but yesterday i worked early and he had his child until 6pm so we both got in about 7 and just spent the evening relaxing. which was really nice. jus had loads of candles and music then later we watched a film. and it was just so nice to feel so chilled for the first time in ages. we're staying at the house tonight. and being there with him last night made me think. i would rather spend the night with him than without him. any day of the year. but i'm still not quite ready to officially move in with him. so now we'll see if our relationship can actually survive now we're together properly with no one else on the scene. i guess time will tell.